How to Find Private Money Lenders in Your Local Market
Oct 28, 2025
    
  
Let’s be honest—money is usually the biggest hurdle for new investors.
 You’ve got the drive, you’ve found a deal, but your bank account says, “Not today.”
Here’s the good news: you don’t need to be rich to flip houses.
 You just need to learn how to find people who believe in your deal—and in you.
That’s where private money lenders come in.
💡 What Is Private Money (and Why It Matters)?
Private money comes from regular people—not banks—who want to earn a return on their money by funding real estate deals.
They’re often friends, family, local business owners, or seasoned investors who like the idea of their money working for them instead of sitting in a savings account.
It’s about relationship-based funding, not red tape.
🤝 1. Start with Your Circle
You don’t need to start with strangers—start with trust.
 Look around your existing network:
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Realtors
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Contractors
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Small business owners
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Friends or family with savings or equity
 
You’re not asking for a favor—you’re presenting an opportunity.
 Show them how their money can earn better returns backed by real property.
Stewardship starts with honesty and clarity. Always present your deals with integrity and transparency.
🏘 2. Get Plugged into Local Real Estate Networks
Private lenders hang out where investors hang out.
Here’s where to start:
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Local REIAs (Real Estate Investor Associations)
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Networking meetups or “Flip Fridays”
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Community Facebook groups focused on real estate or investing
 
Show up, share what you’re working on, and let people see that you’re serious and teachable.
Faith in business doesn’t just mean praying for opportunity—it means showing up prepared when the door opens.
💬 3. Build Credibility with Consistency
Before anyone invests a dollar with you, they need to trust you.
 That starts with being consistent in three areas:
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Communication
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Follow-through
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Character
 
Even one small flip done right can open the door to multiple future lenders.
 People want to partner with doers, not talkers.
💻 4. Use Social Media and Testimonials
Don’t underestimate your online presence.
 Post updates about your progress, flips, and lessons learned.
 Show that you’re active, knowledgeable, and committed.
Transparency builds trust—and trust attracts capital.
📞 5. Offer Fair, Clear Terms
Private lending isn’t charity. It’s partnership.
Be upfront about:
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Expected ROI
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Timeline for repayment
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What happens if things go sideways
 
When you communicate with clarity and fairness, word spreads fast that you’re the kind of investor people want to work with.
🙌 The Bigger Picture
At REAP, we believe success in real estate isn’t about chasing money—it’s about building relationships that last.
 When you approach funding with integrity, confidence, and good stewardship, the right lenders find you.
Ready to Build Your First Deal the Smart Way?
Inside our Navigator Mentorship Program, we walk you step-by-step through finding and funding your first flip. You’ll learn exactly how to approach lenders, structure deals, and build a funding strategy that sets you up for long-term success.
👉 Learn more here: Navigator Mentorship Program
 📞 Call or text: Roy (865) 414-4162 or Lanny (228) 493-3808
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